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do laundry and everything, get the meals and take care of the baby. Then Dad wanted me
to go pitch hay with ‘im, be a man. I told him I wouldn’t do it.
Q. Is that the first job you refused?
A. Yeah. I was only sixteen, but he thought I should go out and pitch hay, ‘cause I was
strong and able to do most anything. But I wasn’t going to go out and pitch hay with a
bunch of men. They got the hay up.
From The Courting Years of Ruby Ray:
Dad had heard what a wonderful place Bellingham, Washington was and had
written the Chamber of Commerce for information, which sounded wonderful. (About
that time,) Clarence came to Wheatland to see me. He asked be to marry him and I
excepted and we were engaged. He sent me a diamond ring and a wristwatch. We all
left the gate at once, Clarence going back to town to catch a train back home, the rest
going the other was (to Bellingham).
We had packed our bedding, dishes, etc., into a big box and shipped them to
Bellingham. We were picked up by a flat bed truck and all got to Cheyenne, Wyoming
together and stayed in a camp park that night. The next morning we started out together,
down a nice street full of houses, Dad in the lead, the rest of us trailing along behind. We
met a young lady and her boy friend. I heard the girl say: “What a way to travel.” I stuck
my nose in the air, like I owned the town. I’d like to have gone through the pavement.
Dad divided the money he had, $16.50 to me, $16.50 to Mother, $16.50 to him and
$7.50 to Vern. He took Ireta and Thelma and caught a freight train. They got there soon
without incident. Vern got picked up by the cops as a runaway and had to give them my
life-long friend, Jewell Fuller’s name, who lived in Mt. Vernon, Washington. She
cleared him with the cops and they let him go.
Mother and I had Jenny. She was two or three, too big to carry and not big enough
to walk. We had a suitcase and a couple of quilts in a bedroll. Mother and I walked and
walked. I’d carry Jenny and she’d carry the bed roll and suitcase, then I’d carry the
bedroll and suitcase and Jenny would walk a ways.